How I Handled A Hater

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People will talk, judge, and gossip no matter what, and some girls/guys will hate you for no reason. That is reality, and you cant really do anything about it to stop them. I know it can be tiring to hear some bad things about yourself that is certainly not true spreading around the school like a virus. Some people will also talk crap about you to others so they would stop liking you or being your friends. I have experienced it before where a girl from my school wanted people to hate me so she talked to them behind my back, and accused me for something I didn't do. Seriously, I had no idea what kind of satisfaction did she get? What do you get out of being a hater? After a while, my friends and I figured it out, and we confronted her. Now, who look stupid? Being a bigger person to forgive and forget sometimes can be hard to do. However, that is what we all should do in order to put everything behind us. 

1. Ignore them 

No matter how difficult and annoying the situation that you're facing, ignore these people who are craving to see you fall. Don't give them the satisfaction to see you stress or upset about it. Hang out with your true friends, and show them that you are happy. If they are trying to separate you from your friends because they're jealous of you and the people you're hanging out with, then you'll know who your true friends are.

2. Kill them with kindness

Don't even play the revenge game or filled yourself with anger because that kind of attitude will turn you into a hater, and you become like them. Trying to explain yourself is also a bad idea. Just say hi to them or good morning like they are your acquaintances. If they talk to you and ask you questions, answer them with confidence and convince them that you aren't scared.

3. Make them as your motivator

You must be doing something very right to make them so jealous of you and your success. Get better in your academic life, and use them as your motivator. They hate you already for who you are, and they will be pleased to see you fall. If you prove them that their behavior towards you won't affect you, they're the ones who will fall to the ground with anger and jealousy.

4. Focus on yourself

The battle is never about you, it's about them dealing with themselves because they're missing something that YOU have. All you gotta do is focus on yourself and don't let them ruin or distract you for whatever it is that you want to achieve.

If their behavior has gone to the point where they bully you, ruin your reputations, accuse you for something you didn't commit, or anything worse, you should seek for help because they need to be stopped. Don't be weak and just accept whatever it is they throw at you; however, don't do the same thing they do to you either because it isn't right. Look for help, don't be afraid because people WILL help you if you ASK.

Be Strong !

LOVE,